First we need to understand how a narcissistic being is characterized. They tend towards the behavior that defines them as: persuasive, self-centered, seducers and with a high image of themselves. They are especially skilled at picking up on what others feel (even if they don't care) and manipulating them to achieve their goals.
Their way of relating to the world, both personally and professionally, is unstable, even if they demonstrate self-confidence. They are especially skilled when it comes to picking up on what others feel and manipulating them to achieve their goals. goals, using your abilities to achieve your desires, even if it means taking advantage, deceiving or harming the others. They may even use violence, as they are incapable of feeling what the other feels, be it pain or affection.
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Although they don't care how their actions affect their environment, they are often afraid to see their image or
reputation harmed, as they often try to feel above others. When their image is put to the test, they feel anguish if they receive criticism or suffer some kind of humiliation, and this leads them to do everything possible to maintain that image of greatness, even if it means harm someone.Rather than being overtly demanding, narcissists try to manipulate the situation to get what they want indirectly. They can play the victim and use their compassion to persuade you to do what they want. They often pretend to be a lot nicer than they really feel inside.
not all narcissists are exactly the same, but they all use other people to help regulate their self-esteem. If you're in a relationship with a narcissist, it might help to recognize them, what they expect from you, and what that means in terms of how they're likely to treat you. Depending on your inner resources and preferences, you may find one type of narcissist tolerable as a partner, while another type can literally drive you crazy.
To win the relationship with you and gain your trust, the narcissist may praise you, with ulterior motives. This is not true, but just a form of manipulation to achieve your goals. And, for sure, you can become a great admirer of the narcissist.
For those seeking help, psychotherapy can work to increase empathy and compassion. May learn how to get along better with others, which can encourage interpersonal relationships more functional and improved, as well as gaining a better understanding of your own emotions and why you feel like this.
Living with a narcissist can be very challenging for your family members and those around you. Mainly due to emotional dysregulation (difficulty keeping calm), especially when other people threaten or contradict your thoughts and ideas about yourself. As a result, you may experience difficulty and it affects all personal and professional relationships.
With the therapy, the narcissist can learn to recognize and manage their actions, cultivate healthy relationships, empathize and communicate effectively with others. This can be a slow process in some cases, but with openness and strong motivation, significant progress is likely to occur.
Psychologist, postgraduate in Business Management Executive Coaching and Skills. Writer with international training for creative writing and storytelling. Researcher at Dakila Pesquisas, creation of Pedagogical Coaching methodology for parents and educators.
