In life we relate to people who can be aggregators or toxic in our daily lives. Among these toxic people there are those who are manipulative, sometimes it is difficult to distinguish who these people are. That's why we bring here 10 signs of manipulation that can help you.
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Watch out for these 10 signs that a manipulator is trying to control you:
1. Does not have a view of behaviors and actions
Manipulators believe that there is only one way to deal with situations, things, and people, and that their way is the only correct one. For, in this way, they ensure that their wishes are met, benefiting them. This is what matters most to a handler.
2. Avoid taking responsibility for any behavior or one of their actions
Most of the time the manipulator transfers the blame for having acted in such a way to an action that someone else has. done and "forced" him to act in such a way, it is very common to say "If I hadn't done that, I wouldn't have acted like this manner". But that doesn't mean they don't know what responsibility is, it's just that many prefer to avoid taking it on so they won't be held accountable.
3. They are quite critical of you
They manage to constantly criticize your actions, behavior, looks and character, without even bring some solution or alternatives so that I can help you, they are unfounded criticisms constructive.
4. They will take you away from what you like the most
Be careful, this includes people around you like family, friends, co-workers and your hobbies. And they can come in tones of threats to ruin things in your life.
5. Will distort the truth or facts
It usually happens if you want to benefit from this distortion, leaving you in doubt about the truth.
6. They love to bombard victims with statistics and data
They use this tool on subjects you don't have much knowledge of so that in the end they are right.
7. Give little time to make a choice
They pressure people to make quick choices and without some kind of rational thinking to benefit the manipulator.
8. Pretend not to understand you
They do this to feel they shouldn't be blamed because they justify their actions or behavior by claiming they didn't understand what the other was saying.
9. silent treatment
It is a way that the manipulator uses to feel superior and have power over the victims, it is also a form of psychological abuse.
10. They hold you responsible for their happiness.
They will blame you or others for the negative emotions they are experiencing. They didn't take responsibility for the bad moments that are happening in his life.
After this list of signs to watch out for, we hope it has helped in some way so that you are not controlled.
