Most relationships start out great, right? They are full of red roses, gifts and affection. This reality begins to change rapidly. For some couples, it becomes that of a drama movie that is far from a good romance. Some men and even women start to adopt toxic attitudes, which lead them to become very controlling.
Learn to identify these behaviors to avoid problems in the future.
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This fairy tale story is not the reality of many couples. Unfortunately, most of the time, the woman is the one who suffers the most. The point is that love is blind and always will be, so some girls have a hard time identifying the harmful signals it gives off. If this is your case, see the examples below so you can analyze and pay attention:
He always asks where you are
This lack of confidence is intrinsic to people who are like this. It doesn't matter how faithful and correct you are, he will always suspect something. In reality, this shows more of his insecurity than anything related to you or his ex-girlfriend. The problem starts to get serious when the guy starts following you or verbally assaulting you when you take too long to send your location or pass on information. Careful!
It implies when you go out with other people
At first, your boyfriend will always think it's bad that you have some male friendships. Normal? Perhaps. The question is, then it starts to move forward. Hanging out with anyone other than him becomes a problem. The worst thing about this situation is that the woman starts to distance herself from her friends, leaving her with only her toxic boyfriend.
No more privacy
You are no longer alone, because he will always control you. That's it dangerous. All your steps begin to be supervised by the guy. It gets worse when he decides you need to move in together. Think twice!
He will test you at all times.
Controlling people literally like to be in control, so any slip up you make… it's going to be chaos. Parallel to this, they are very insecure and need your confirmation all the time, either about things that have already happened or about present situations.