The method of raising a child plays a fundamental role in their emotional and psychological development, directly influencing the type of adult they will become.
Among the many possible outcomes of childhood, one of the most complex is the narcissistic behavior in adults.
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Psychologist Ramani Durvasula, drawing on her vast clinical experience, has revealed an intriguing link between childhood upbringing and the tendency toward narcissism in adulthood.
She reveals that, despite their differences, two opposing parenting styles can contribute to the formation of a narcissist.
The expert highlights two different paths that can lead to the development of a narcissistic adult: the path of the style of attachment traumatized, neglected and with bad emotional connection, and the path of spoiled and overprotected child.
On the first path, children who grow up in an environment in which their feelings and needs are often ignored or Inconsiderate people may internalize the idea that considering or respecting the feelings and needs of others is not a priority.
This can result in an adult who has difficulty relating empathetically to others, demonstrating narcissistic behavior.
On the other hand, in the second way, children who are inspired or whose actions and feelings are constantly validated can develop inflated self-esteem.
They may grow up believing that their opinions and desires are always the most important, which can also lead to narcissistic behaviors in adulthood.
The two environments described by Durvasula, that of traumatized and neglected attachment, as well as that of excessive pampering and overprotection, along with a fundamental characteristic: they reinforce a self-centered existence.
In both cases, the child learns that what is happening to them is more important than what is happening to others around them.
This excessive emphasis on self can result in poor and detrimental emotional regulation skills in adulthood.
The child cannot develop the possible skills to understand and manage his or her own emotions, nor to reflect and respond specifically to the emotions of others.
This can cause difficulties in interpersonal relationships in adult life, manifesting itself in behaviors narcissistic, in which a person tends to prioritize their own needs and feelings to the detriment of those others.
According to the expert, the ideal is to maintain a middle ground between protecting children and giving them independence, so that they develop a resilient and at the same time sociable personality.
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