Have you ever found yourself at a crossroads, pondering which path to take, but paralyzed by uncertainty? In today's volatile world, making decisions can seem like an increasingly complicated task.
The good news is that the wisdom of the past offers us surprising tools that still apply in today’s world, such as “Solomon's Paradox“.
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For the uninitiated, it is a psychological phenomenon in which people often think more objectively and clearly about other people's problems than about their own.
In short, it is easier to be “wise” when you are counseling someone else than when you are reflecting on your own concerns. Solomon, the legendary king of Israel known for his immense wisdom, is the inspiration behind this concept.
But how can we apply this paradox to our lives to make better choices? Here are some tips!
When faced with a dilemma, start by trying to see yourself as an outside observer. Ask yourself: “What would I advise a friend to do in this situation?” This can help clear your mind and allow you to view your options more objectively.
Put your thoughts on paper. Writing about a problem as if you were describing it to someone else can provide a new perspective.
By distancing yourself emotionally, you may be able to see solutions that were previously hidden.
Imagine that you are a consultant hired to solve the problem. What would you suggest? Such a “third person” approach allows you to approach the situation without the weight of personal emotions and consequences.
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Sometimes all we need is a listening ear. Talking to someone about what you're going through can be a great way to hear someone else's perspective and also to organize your own thoughts.
Additionally, explaining your problem to someone else can give you clarity about what's really at stake.
Dedicate some time to introspection. When meditating, we try to observe our thoughts and emotions without judgment, as if we were a third-party observer. This practice can contribute to a more “Solomonic” mentality when making decisions.
A significant part of “Solomon's Paradox” is recognizing that because we are less emotional when thinking about other people's problems, we tend to consider the long-term consequences.
When making a decision, consider the future and not just immediate gratification.
Last but definitely not least, trust your ability to choose. Often, the answer is already within us, we just need a little help to see it.
In the end, “Solomon’s Paradox” is not just a tool to make decisions, it is an invitation to self-reflection and personal growth.
The next time you find yourself at a crossroads, remember King Solomon and try to distance yourself a little. You might be surprised at the wisdom you discover.
