If you are still waiting and longing for the moment when your partner will finally see things the way you think they should, then you are immersed in an illusion.
Create one idealized versionin our mind, instead of accepting and living with the flesh and blood person who is our partner, it can be a path to disappointment and frustration in love.
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We often tend to view our partners through the lens of our own perceptions rather than truly understanding them for who they are or how they see themselves.
The dilemma lies in this: by raising the flag of your partner's “improvement”, you are inadvertently undermining your expectations of him, not giving him space to understand him.
Do you want a real person to disappear, giving way to idealized image that you have of it and, consequently, begins to interact with the imaginary representation.
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Each partner is unique, with a rich and complex inner world, but we cannot always fully penetrate or shape it.
We may want it to align with our expectations or the ideal image we have in mind, but it is important to consider that this will not always be a reality.
Each person brings with them their own uniqueness and, as much as we can share and grow together, it is essential to respect and accept the differences that are part of each relationship.
One of the deepest forms of suffering lies in the denial of reality, and this becomes more evident when we ignore the reality of the person with whom we share our life.
O partner will always seek to be authentic, even if sometimes we try to adjust to their idealized vision. When someone tries to deny their own essence, it can result in confusing feelings.
The desire for uniformity is often at the heart of the difficulties of living with another person. Recognizing and respecting our partner's individuality is essential for building relationships and trust.
It is essential to keep in mind that your partner has a unique inner world. His feelings, thoughts, temperament, desires, and childhood experiences are different from yours.
Therefore, it is important to always remember that your partner is not you and that he is not obliged to meet your expectations.
Each person has an individuality and has their own perspective and life story. Accepting and respecting such differences is essential to building a healthy and harmonious relationship.
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