Finding a partner who has the same beliefs and perspectives for the future makes building the relationship easier, because the conceptions that we accumulate throughout life are difficult to modification. The first important step towards building a good relationship is to understand reality and to what extent it is possible to achieve as a couple. For this, we separate some expectations that may make your relationship difficult!
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To avoid relationship problems due to poorly created expectations, some points are relevant.
1. The "Forever"
Over time, some relationships can reach the routine stage, whether in terms of love and/or sex. In addition, the vision of the future also undergoes some changes that may be opposed.
2. have your independence
Having a partner who helps with financial matters is important, but it does not exempt you from having your independence. In a relationship both are responsible for themselves and financial support is not an obligation.
3. habits
Every human being has flaws and qualities and in a relationship we must learn to live with both. This does not mean accepting any attitude, you must understand which behaviors are acceptable and which are toxic in the relationship.
4. Features to be changed
Creating the expectation of changing your partner doesn't always happen the way you want. People build their personality for many years and to modify a simple point in some cases it is difficult.
5. Maturity and children
Having a child does not mean keeping your spouse in the relationship. Along with the children, new responsibilities are born and this will not always be beneficial for the couple.
6. Initiatives
I don't wait for the other's attitudes. Communication is the basis of any relationship, so it's a two-way street, in which both have to be on the same "tune".
7. recognize changes
Understand your changing needs, you are not perfect. Listen to what bothers your partner and try to improve.
8. have a voice
Learn to talk whenever necessary about the things you don't like. Thus adjusting the relationship.
9. Live the present
Understand that the past is part of building your current “self”. However, try to let go of the past and focus on the here and now.