How to overcome rudeness even without wanting to?

There are different reasons for using aggressiveness in speech. However, behaviors like these are not and should not be accepted as something natural. After all, nobody likes to be mistreated, right? In addition to being frustrating, it certainly brings sadness, both for those who suffered the action and for those who practiced the action. The important thing is to recognize and know how to overcome rudeness even without wanting to.

Understand why you use aggression and how to avoid doing so

Using passivity-aggressiveness to deal with people is a common behavior in relationships. People who use this way of communicating, in many cases, avoid an emotional opening or believe that using this behavior is better than being carried away by the feeling of anger. Therefore, they use jokes, debauchery, irony, hints and even silence.

People who have a passive-aggressive behavior pattern show a trait of

personality with modes of victimization and dissimulation. There are reasons that explain the rude way they communicate. Are they:

1. As a child, some people did not have free access to the expression of feelings, so for a long time had to show their wishes and desires through hints or by hiding what they were feeling from fact.
2. When people repress anger, they tend to see it as something good and healthy. For this reason, they often do not express their resentments, creating internal wounds and giving voice to ideas and personalities that are not true, just so as not to hurt the people around them.
3. Being a victim of situations makes them easier to deal with, after all, the victim is always the “poor thing” and the “right one”. It's more comfortable to victimize yourself than to deal head-on with life's disagreements. Taking responsibility can be draining for aggressive people.

How to beat rudeness

1. Seek help from professionals
2. Reflect on your behaviors
3. learn to say no
4. Don't be afraid of what people will think of you.
5. deal with your feelings
6. Choose the right places to be
7. Build self-esteem and self-confidence