Fairy tales create in children's imagination from an early age the idea of progression in a relationship: The couple gets to know each other, starts dating and, eventually, gets married and is ''happily ever after''. Marriage is usually a consequence of courtship, and because of this, many people yearn for it. However, your partner may not seem very excited about the idea.
Notice some signs that indicate that your partner is not ready to marry.
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It's a fact that not everyone chooses to get married – or feels ready to take that first step. Giving ultimatums, in this case, can be counterproductive. Dialogue can be ideal, so here are tips for picking up signs that your partner still doesn't want to put a wedding ring on your fingers:
He clearly tells you that he doesn't want
Humans have a tendency to ignore clear signals when the answer isn't exactly what we're looking for. That way, he might give the most obvious signal possible and tell you he doesn't want to get married, and you still ignore it.
In that case, it's good to understand that this isn't some kind of joke or exaggeration on his part, it's a legitimate feeling. This, however, does not mean that he will never want to get married or that your relationship is over. He just doesn't feel ready at the moment and the ideal thing is for you to talk about it.
He changes the subject when you comment on
It's natural for you to talk a lot about something that causes you excitement, excitement or high expectations. At the same time, it is very common for you to avoid subjects that make you uncomfortable. So, if you bring up the subject and your partner walks away from the topic or doesn't pay much attention to it, he may be uncomfortable with the idea or just not thinking about it very much at the moment. In both cases, it means that the two of you are not paired in this will.
He constantly criticizes marriages
It could be that the reason he avoids the subject so much is a combination of emotional triggers and trauma. Many people spent their childhood in troubled homes and full of family strife, so your marriage parameter is not positive. Showing him little by little and as he allows that marriages can, yes, be healthy, might get him excited about the idea.
