Several agents can help other people draw the first conclusions about us. Our body language, for example, is a fundamental factor. Our insecurity and lack of self-awareness are also important parameters in this first moment of contact.
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Thus, it is common to perceive specific behaviors in people with ease in communication. Below you can see what they are.
1. There is never a concentration
People who have the best communications usually wait for the other to say something before expressing themselves. It is common that, at the beginning of a conversation, you want to impress the other with several lines that value you, but this can backfire. So, the best thing to do in the first moment is to serve more as a listener.
2. It's comical when it really makes sense.
Not always the jokes put on the agenda will please everyone. Humor is indeed a great mechanism to break tense atmospheres, but the secret is to know when to use humor so much positive (laughs with others, lifts each other up...) or negative humor (laughs at others' expense, deals with stereotypes…).
3. They only work as a team when they are prepared.
There's usually a whole lot of preparation when you know you're going to meet someone important. At an event, being able to meet a list of people is great. Going beyond side conversations and actually presenting your specific intentions to the people you are communicating with is a very valuable step.
4. They always think positively
Meeting people for the first time, per hour, can cause feelings of insecurity, which consequently will make you a little awkward and apt to make mistakes. However, if you think positively and are aware that everything doesn't have to be 100% perfect, the likelihood of stumbling over words becomes much less.
